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        <title>A Top 30 Stream of BONNIE KAYE SERVICES Press Releases (in OGG format) via PRWeb</title>
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                        <title>Straight Wives Respond to McGreevey at Launching of New Book</title>
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                        <description>EVENT:   Book Signing ForumDATE: Sunday, September 24, 2006PLACE:    Sister&#039;s Uptown Bookstore1942 Amsterdam Avenue(156TH ST)TIME:  1:00 &#8211; 3:00 P.M. [PRWeb Sep 20, 2006]</description>
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                        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Philadelphia, PA (PRWEB) September 20, 2006 -- In the midst of all of the media publicity over James McGreevey&#8217;s new book &#8220;The Confession,&#8221; a new book has just been released to tell the real story of the emotional turmoil on the part of the straight wives.

Straight Wives, Shattered Lives, by Bonnie Kaye, M.Ed., was written in response to the growing public sympathy for gay men married to straight women. In Kaye&#8217;s newest book on this topic, she has compiled the stories from 27 women from around the world who are part of her 7,000 international member support network. A new website was created for the book at <a href="http://www.Straightwives.com" onclick="linkClick( this.href );"  target="_blank">www.Straightwives.com</a>.

The book will officially be launched at a forum/book signing on Sunday, September 24 at Sister&#8217;s Uptown Bookstore located at 1942 Amsterdam Avenue at 156 Street from 1:00 p.m. &#8211; 3:00 p.m. Kaye and a number of her women contributors will discuss what James McGreevey&#8217;s wife is keeping silent about&#8212;namely the implications of living with the lie of their husbands&#8217; sexuality.

According to Kaye, a national expert who has counseled over 20,000 women and 1,000 gay husbands since 1984, &#8220;There has been a recent growing awareness to the plight of married gay men. This started with the movie &#8220;Brokeback Mountain,&#8221; and now continues with James McGreevey&#8217;s new book &#8220;The Confession.&#8221; Although it is important to understand the hardships that gay married men face living this deception, no one has accurately described the emotional shattering of their wives.&#8221;

Kaye&#8217;s online support group members were disturbed at the imbalanced picture that was being painted by the media. While the men were sympathetically portrayed as lovers doomed due to societal pressures, their wives were represented as silently suffering women who turned a blind eye. &#8220;It&#8217;s almost as if the wives were an after thought,&#8221; says Kaye. &#8220;There is no way that anyone could have a hint of the devastation our women face having their lives torn apart when they find out the cause of the failure in their marriages&#8212;namely homosexuality.&#8221;

Women wrote to Kaye stating that they felt their perspectives needed to be heard accurately and with sensitivity. That&#8217;s why she offered them a chance to tell the true stories behind the heartache of women living with this lie. Although every woman in this situation feels isolated and alone, it is estimated in this country over 4 million women are currently in or have been in marriages to gay or bisexual men. Kaye explains, &#8220;The problem is that when the husband comes out of the closet, their wife moves deeper in. Women internalize the shame of their husband&#8217;s homosexuality. Family members and friends wonder how this can happen. In some cases, they blame the wife. They say &#8216;He wasn&#8217;t gay when he married, so why is he gay now? What did you do to turn him gay?&#8217; People don&#8217;t understand homosexuality. Wives of gay men understand it least of all, and often believe it is their fault.&#8221;

Kaye contends that gay husbands have no choice in their homosexuality; however, they do have a choice in being honest with their wives. &#8220;Many of our women suffer for years with men who are resentful and angry because they feel trapped living a lie. The wives have their self and sexual esteem stripped down layer by layer until they no longer remember who they were before the marriage. No woman likes to feel as if she is &#8216;undesirable&#8217; due to years of sexual... To read the press release in full goto http://www.prweb.com/releases/mcgreevey/gayhusbands/prweb438968.htm]]></content:encoded>
                        <itunes:author>Bonnie Kaye</itunes:author>
                        <itunes:subtitle>Straight Wives Respond to McGreevey at Launching of New Book</itunes:subtitle>
                        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Philadelphia, PA (PRWEB) September 20, 2006 -- In the midst of all of the media publicity over James McGreevey&#8217;s new book &#8220;The Confession,&#8221; a new book has just been released to tell the real story of the emotional turmoil on the part of the straight wives.

Straight Wives, Shattered Lives, by Bonnie Kaye, M.Ed., was written in response to the growing public sympathy for gay men married to straight women. In Kaye&#8217;s newest book on this topic, she has compiled the stories from 27 women from around the world who are part of her 7,000 international member support network. A new website was created for the book at <a href="http://www.Straightwives.com" onclick="linkClick( this.href );"  target="_blank">www.Straightwives.com</a>.

The book will officially be launched at a forum/book signing on Sunday, September 24 at Sister&#8217;s Uptown Bookstore located at 1942 Amsterdam Avenue at 156 Street from 1:00 p.m. &#8211; 3:00 p.m. Kaye and a number of her women contributors will discuss what James McGreevey&#8217;s wife is keeping silent about&#8212;namely the implications of living with the lie of their husbands&#8217; sexuality.

According to Kaye, a national expert who has counseled over 20,000 women and 1,000 gay husbands since 1984, &#8220;There has been a recent growing awareness to the plight of married gay men. This started with the movie &#8220;Brokeback Mountain,&#8221; and now continues with James McGreevey&#8217;s new book &#8220;The Confession.&#8221; Although it is important to understand the hardships that gay married men face living this deception, no one has accurately described the emotional shattering of their wives.&#8221;

Kaye&#8217;s online support group members were disturbed at the imbalanced picture that was being painted by the media. While the men were sympathetically portrayed as lovers doomed due to societal pressures, their wives were represented as silently suffering women who turned a blind eye. &#8220;It&#8217;s almost as if the wives were an after thought,&#8221; says Kaye. &#8220;There is no way that anyone could have a hint of the devastation our women face having their lives torn apart when they find out the cause of the failure in their marriages&#8212;namely homosexuality.&#8221;

Women wrote to Kaye stating that they felt their perspectives needed to be heard accurately and with sensitivity. That&#8217;s why she offered them a chance to tell the true stories behind the heartache of women living with this lie. Although every woman in this situation feels isolated and alone, it is estimated in this country over 4 million women are currently in or have been in marriages to gay or bisexual men. Kaye explains, &#8220;The problem is that when the husband comes out of the closet, their wife moves deeper in. Women internalize the shame of their husband&#8217;s homosexuality. Family members and friends wonder how this can happen. In some cases, they blame the wife. They say &#8216;He wasn&#8217;t gay when he married, so why is he gay now? What did you do to turn him gay?&#8217; People don&#8217;t understand homosexuality. Wives of gay men understand it least of all, and often believe it is their fault.&#8221;

Kaye contends that gay husbands have no choice in their homosexuality; however, they do have a choice in being honest with their wives. &#8220;Many of our women suffer for years with men who are resentful and angry because they feel trapped living a lie. The wives have their self and sexual esteem stripped down layer by layer until they no longer remember who they were before the marriage. No woman likes to feel as if she is &#8216;undesirable&#8217; due to years of sexual... To read the press release in full goto http://www.prweb.com/releases/mcgreevey/gayhusbands/prweb438968.htm]]></itunes:summary>

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